Skip to main content

THE DANGER OF EXCUSES:GET OVER YOURSELF


           My husband has begun working out and eating right for a year and a half ago mainly because he wanted to get in shape and be more healthy.  He has been consistent with his diet and exercising even after he finished with his trainer. Me on the other hand, after I was done with my trainer I did not continue with my workout plan and have been eating OKAY mainly because I cook for my husband. I constantly keep thinking how he stays on track but keep flip flopping with my workouts At times, I  will ask him during the week "Do you want to go get a snack or fast food?" Just out of habit and hunger lol. He responds " No thanks" He answers without hesitation or temptation. It must be hard for him to turn down these things every time---- right?

Nope......Wrong. After he had in his mind that he was going to get it done that’s all he truly needed.He was fully committed to his new lifestyle and way of living. It was the norm for him not to eat out of his healthy diet, so my small question did not distract himNot only does he have this discipline in his workout routine but in his work life as well. This is inspiring me to want to do better because this is not where I stand at the moment. I'm getting there, don’t you guys worry.  





EXCUSES... Excuses....EXCUSES 

       I am the queen of excuses at times especially when I am tired and hungry. I have been constantly trying to get my blog and business off the ground for about two years now but I know deep down that I was not putting enough effort to get things done. was taking infant steps toward the finished product. In reality, if I keep moving at this rate it will take me years to start making visible progress. I need to step my game up if I want to get things done. I wonder if excuses are a way of us prolonging the hard work for "later" ( if later ever comes), not feeling so bad for not completing tasks or just letting others know that we are trying. My husband hates when I make excuses. He always tells me that " I do not believe in excuses if you really want to do something you will make time for it." So how do I get there? What makes me different?


THE 100% RULE

  Last week I have read an article by Susie Moore that has inspired me to write this blog post and allowed me to eliminate many of my excuses. This was such an eye-opening moment or an  Ah-ha moment that got me out of this moment of staleness. Susie Moore states that  "Ninety-nine percent is hard—100 percent is easy." This was so confusing to me at first but when I continued to read on it really stuck with me. Take a moment to ponder on this concept. Then the article went on to explain that “99-percent effort” is exhausting and it consumes energy without producing results.  We are constantly falling short of our potential because when you only put in 99% effort into things that matter in life it is harder to keep almost getting there and never fully making it with the 99% effort. Only giving it 99% is time-consuming, causes emotional pain and it is just annoying not to be able to cross out important items off of the to-do list.    When we give 100% it will be difficult but it WILL BE worth it. After awhile the hard things will become easier. Think back to college when you procrastinated on a paper and finished it at night; this happened because you put your focus on that one task.  Now I am not promoting procrastination but the principle of fully committing to something to get it done. The difference in your productively will be tremendous and you will see direct results instantly. When you want something to be done you GET IT DONE and be fully committed to it. 

BAM...BOOM.( This last sentence just got me hyped lol carry on) 


LET'S DO THIS 

          The question I want to ask you guys is: What is holding you back from giving yourself a hundred percent to your dreams? Let's figure this out together and try to fully commit ourselves to something. Whether it is art, music, business, blogging, makeup or whatever you are passionate about. These things will take a time to achieve but the first real step is to fully commit and give it 100%, not 99%. 


LET TAKES THIS GROWTH JOURNEY TOGETHER 







Comments

Popular posts from this blog

TOP 8 Things You Should Know Before You START College

Sometimes it's better to learn from the mistakes of others instead of making your own - I wish I knew these things before I went to COLLEGE. Dear College Freshman,   RELAX! There is no law that says life must be completely figured out by 18.  High school is over, and college is a whole new ball game. It is scary at first, but it will be your second home in no time. College is the place that you will find some lifelong friendships and find out who you truly are. It’s the first time you'll feel truly independent by staying on campus. Coming to the realization that High school is over is so scary but just know that you can get through it. At first, it is going to feel overwhelming because everything is new, the people, the class schedules, the fashion and the college lingo. Yep! I've been there and it is so weird at first. You are not going to be  a freshman forever. After the first month or so you will know the college campus like the back of your hand. Lo...

Social Media Effects on Understanding Emotions

Observation   Effects of  Conversational Involvement  Cues  on Understanding  and  Emotions in  Instant  Messaging Conversations   is a peer reviewed article that "explores how multitasking affects people’s levels of involvement or engagement in their conversations, and how levels of involvement in turn influence people’s language, understanding, and affective responses to the conversation. "  (Fussell, 2015)  It is common  to use Instant M essaging su ch as  Facebook, Instagram,  email etc.; to communicate with one another while  multitasking in  the  workplace.   T hese conversations are often carried out  with  amid other tasks.  This  study  was done to prove  the effects of multitasking on the quality of the  computer-mediated communication ( CMC)  conversation itself. ”   (Fussell, 2015)       When the employ...

My Quote For The Year 2018

Today is a great day to start as a  blank notebook.  You get to write anything you want in it. This is your perfect opportunity to sit down and prepare a list of important lifestyle changes you want to make, and being the charitable and caring bunch. What are your plans for the new year?   Let me know in the comments below. I will be sharing mine in my next blog post and showing you how I make them realistic and doable